Any relationship can be beneficial but in an opposite sex relationship there are things that everyone must consider specially to us women. When we are in a relationship there are diverse factors to fall in a bad relationship. Based on my research the following are:
- I commonly heard about "special friends relationship and when we heard about this we overlooked the fact that this is all about about sex relationship only. They said women are commonly caught up of this situation. They think that since they give astounding sex to their mate, they are now special. Yes they will always come to see you and hang-out but merely for sex. Accordingly there is no future for this kind of relationship because once the men find the woman that gives him more than sex, for sure he will leave you behind. When we are in a relationship we need to have an honest communication and don't hesitate to ask the status of the relationship unless you just want pleasure too.
- Never force anyone to commit themselves to you. Being persuasive is not good at all. They will be pressured to do things unwillingly and this can result to pretensions. I have a friend who was worried of getting her man more committed to her or even marry her. Shes telling him on what to do, girls this is not right. Let their heart guides them what to do, we can never instruct men's heart believe me. Just enjoy the moment and if you think that his not really ready... then you need to let go and move on. There's a lot of fish in the ocean!
- Most of us today are hooked to an instant relationship. Most instant thing has no values at all. Internet dating, phone pals and many instant dating today. Remember when a person is in a dating site, that means he/she is not dating or talking to one person only. You need to be smart enough to handle some stuff like this.
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